Question: How do we bring the sexy flirty energy we love to read about in romance novel into our actual lives?
Answer: Start by getting playful with your text messages to your significant other.
A couple playful sentences sent in the middle of the day may be all it takes to spark some chemistry tonight! But what to say …
Before we launch into sample texts, it may be smart to access where your relationship is currently at and therefore how these texts may be received. If necessary, you may want to mention to your spouse or person you’re dating that you are interested in being more playful and flirty, and you are going to try some things you hope will be fun for the both of you.
For your Spouse
I could not stop checking you out when you left for work this morning.
We’ve got 7 minutes until the kids are home. Do you accept the challenge?
Let’s not waste time taking each others’ clothes off.
Want to lock the bedroom door tonight?
For Person You’re Dating (Maybe Your Spouse)
I’m having a hard time focusing today … thank you very much!
Guess what I’m not wearing right now?
I’m addicted to you, and I need another hit.
What I need right now: sleep, food, and sex. Except I don’t care about the first two.
LOL, I’m imagining things I can’t type …
Honestly the best texts message are in the context of conversations you are already having together. Look for the opportunities to tease each other or think about the playful response instead of the serious one next time.
Have you ever sent/received a flirty texts? Tell us about it in the comments! I think we would all benefit from hearing about other experiences.